Archive | February 2012

A cute poem:)))

FIRST LOVE

 

It was late Sunday night when we said good-bye
I knew right then that my heart would cry…
You felt so cold, and it hurt me so…
I loved you so much, that I let you go…

A love so true, it felt so sweet…
For a year of my life, you swept me off my feet…
I tried everyday, to remind you of my love…
For I knew you were precious and sent from up above…

I held you every moment… I held you tight…
Praying you would always love me every day, and every night
But time went on, as it tends to do…
And with times passing, I fell even deeper for you…

Your love grew tiresome… it tore me apart…
And you broke every promise, when you broke my heart…
I couldn’t stop crying, it hurt me so much…
For I longed every moment to feel your gentle touch…

I gaze into your eyes, to see only gray…
there was no need for words… I knew what you had to say…
I held on to you, in the depths of my heart…
Regardless of how it tore me apart…

My love still remains, through the betrayal you’ve done…
Messing with my best friend, and having your fun…
I stood by your side, though you didn’t want me…
and I loved you so endlessly…

I still love you, but time’s mended my heart…
But never shall your memory part…
And you will always have a special place within my heart…

You will always be the first, who touched me so deep…
And in my heart, will I always keep…
memories of you and me…
together for eternity…

You taught me how to love and, darling…
You will always be my first love.

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MUST_my school!!!.. :))

Mindanao University of  Science and Technology is one of the country’s leading providers of scientific and technological skills.

Mindanao University of Science and Technology is one of the top schools in Cagayan de Oro City, and probably the most enrolled. It caters the need of poor but deserving students from different parts of Mindanao.In my first step to college, I was really confused on what university am i going to enroll. I am totally from Surigao del Norte and was able to migrate here in Cagayan De Oro to have my study in collage.My Tita told me to enroll in MUST because that was also the same school were she graduated her collage. At first, I can’t really feel the environment in MUST because I really want to study at Capitol University with Accountancy degree course.Unfortunately, MUST doesn’t offer the course that I’ve wanted. Final decision I made is to study my college here at MUST taking up Bachelor of Science in Public Administration.

In just a couple of months staying here at MUST, I can therefore prove ..what they percept about this kind of University was absolutely true. Mindanao University of Science and technology was really the best school among the rest, it teaches in advance topics and lessons comparing to other schools. The instruction also teaches well the students and shared and excellent ideas relatively to the subjects they are handling. They mold and make us realize how important education is.

MUST also have a new modern buildings and facilities. It is a center of engineering and Technology. MUST is the fountain of knowledge and the school we cherished high..

I lOVE MINDANAO UNIVERSITY OF SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY!!!!!!!!!

I AM PROUD MUSTEAN.. :))))

The Essence of Happiness

 

 

 

 

 

whether we are rich or poor,
educated or uneducated,
whatever our nationality, colour,
social status or ideology may be,
the purpose of our lives is to be happy

This simple and beautiful statement sums up the essence of our being. Happiness is a birthright. It is in the matrix of the universe.

Civilization, societal structures and rituals have over the centuries skewed our perception of what it really means to be a human being who has chosen this experience on this earth in this time.

Our incredible personal power eludes most of us, simply because we have lost touch with ourselves and believed incorrect information about our true nature. In the process of focusing outside of ourselves instead of within ourselves we have given away our power.

As the old structures are gradually falling apart and we are beginning to re-connect to who we really are we are also re-defining core values and beliefs of our existence. As our vision opens up beyond old perceptions and the constraints of religious teachings we are literally waking up to our dormant strengths.

We are learning that guilt, fear, aggression are characteristics of an old paradigm we cannot identify with any longer.

In amongst all the new scientific revelations which are confirming teachings from the old wisdom traditions but viewed through the lens of the contemporary world, a liberation on a massive scale is taking place. As the world at large is waking up and the old is fighting against the new we are beginning to realize our misperceptions and are moving ever closer to self actualization.

Maybe the biggest realization anyone can have is that it is okay to be happy and that you can train yourself to be happy, free from guilt and fear and other limiting emotions and beliefs without compromising your ability to survive.

The amigdala, the oldest part of our brain still has the old fight and flight responses necessary for survival millennia ago, stored in its memory bank. We think predominantly negatively and its automatic. It is old programming, locked into our subconscious mind.

However, as we are growing in awareness and our views of the world and ourselves are changing. Many of us are moving beyond the need to be critical, to focus on what is wrong and fight in order to win and survive. There is a growing realization that we can have successful lives simply by tuning into the energies of contentment, acceptance, gratitude and love.

These higher energies are truth and everything that is of truth flows easily. Happiness evolves through the practice of self acceptance, non judgement and love.

At this point I would like to share with you a simple practice I have adopted: I am silently sending everyone I speak to this blessing: “May you be well and may you have an easy life.”

The difference this little practice makes to my well being is palpable: I get to feel happier, negativity falls away and people respond to me in a very different way. In this way I get to stay in a higher energy level for longer and longer periods, particularly when going out and encountering the many negative energies we are all exposed to.

The feeling of happiness frees you up to be yourself and connect to your true self. It cuts out a lot of the mind chatter we all experience until we take hold of our mind and train to direct it at will and with congruence. When you experience feeling this grounding and can maintain this feeling, you are in the flow of receiving the energies that manifest success.

This principle applies to everyone. Whatever your profession, where ever you are on your path, once you have learnt to tune into the feeling of happiness and make it part of who you are you will be able to manifest success in all areas of your life.

The true meaning of “LOVE”

Most people who claim to love someone don’t really love them, because they don’t know what love actually is.

  • Possessiveness is not love
  • Jealousy is not love
  • Lust is not love
  • Fear is not love
  • Keeping people all to yourself is not love
  • Expecting something from someone is not love

Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds of love” are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives… or at least it sure looks that way.

To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.

So, how does unconditional love fit in with relationships and marriage and sex and all that stuff the whole world keeps going crazy over? It doesn’t, really. It doesn’t “fit” in anywhere. Relationships are like trying to put love into a box and keep it there, except love is infinitely sized, and the box is… well, there is no box large enough. And a normal, conventional marriage is quite possibly the worst possible way to show someone how much you love them.

Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing. It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate. It has nothing whatsoever to do with sex. Most people are in relationships because they’re horny and/or lonely, even if they genuinely think they love the other person. But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their “equipment” for whatever reason, would they still want to be with that person? Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend time with other people as well? Relationships based on needs are not unconditional.

In order to truly understand love, you must first forget everything you have ever learned about it from society and anyone else (including what I just said). You are the only person who can tell you what love is. The only reason I’m writing all this stuff is because people always try to fit “love” in with things like dating, relationships and marriage and all that. You can’t make any sense of it if you keep doing that. You have to get rid of everything you think you know first.

The importance of Family..

Family is very important part of our everyday life. It helps us in improving our personality. It also helps us in shaping our life. It teaches us the value of love, affection, care, truthfulness and self-confidence and provides us tools and suggestions which are necessary to get success in life.

Family is a place where you can be yourself. It is a place where you are accepted for what you are. This is where you are completely tension free and everyone is there to help you. Family encourages you when you are surrounded by problems. It helps you survive through tough times and bring joy and happiness into life.

Decency is very important in the communication of daily life. It helps us make strong relationship with others and make us come across as a very gentle, intelligent and likable person. Everyone loves to be in a company of such person. Family helps bring decency into our life which is necessary to lead a happy life.

One of the most important aims of our life is to build a successful and highly rewarding career. Our families help us in creating a strong future. It gives us valuable suggestion about different career prospective. It not only guides us in choosing the best but also financially helps us to cover the expenses of education. Thus it helps us in making a good future.

The importance of family is probably realized when one went to holiday or celebrate an occasion without family members. It was very hard to celebrate an occasion or went to holiday without being surrounded by family members. At that time probably we realize that how important they are to us. At that time, we came to know about the importance of our families.

Today, most people don’t realize the importance of family. They prefer to spend most of their time with their friends. But when they are surrounded by problems, it was their family that helped them get rid of problems. At the time, when even our best friends refuse to help us, it was our family that came to help us. So it is very important for each and every individual to give importance to their families above anything else and enjoy spending time with family members.

Cagayan De Oro City

Cagayan de Oro, officially the City of Cagayan de Oro, is the provincial capital cityof the province of Misamis Oriental in the Philippines.It lies along the northern coastline of the island of Mindanao in the country’s southern portion.

Dubbed locally as the “City of Golden Friendship” (Dakbayan sa Bulawanong Panaghigala-ay in Cebuano, as the phrase appears on the city’s seal) for the camaraderie and hospitality that are inherent and traditional traits of its people. The name Cagayan de Oro may appear abbreviated as CDO, CDOC, CdeO or Cag. de Oro.

Cagayan de Oro is considered as a Melting Pot of Mindanao noted for its accessibility, business growth, attractions and most of its entire warm and hospitable people. A growing metropolis to be classified as a first-class city and serves as the regional center being the most populous highly-urbanized city in northern Mindanao (Region X), and the metropolitan center of Metro Cagayan De oro. According to the 2007 Census, the city has an estimated population of 553,996 inhabitants.

There are also other places in the Philippines with a Cagayán name. One must distinguish Cagayan de Oro from Cagayan province in Northern Luzon and the Cagayan Islands in the Sulu Sea.

The name Cagayán de Oro can be traced back during the arrival of the Spanish Augustinian Recollect friars in 1622, the area around Himologan (now Huluga), was already known as “Cagayan”.

In fact, early Spanish documents in the 16th century already referred to the place as “Cagayán”. The area of Northern Mindanao, which included Cagayán de Oro, was granted as Encomienda to a certain Juan Griego on January 25, 1571.

It was Emmanuel Pelaez who appended de Oro to Cagayán in recognition of the gold mining activities in the area, harking back to the Spanish colonization. Thus, the city’s full name is a combination of the ancient Austronisian and spanish languages that translates to “City of the River of Gold”.

The Sacred Heart is the Holy Eucharist

 

 

 

Why do we make this equation? What do we mean when we say the Sacred Heart is the Holy Eucharist? We begin by recalling the centuries of Church teaching on what the term “Sacred Heart” expresses. The Sacred Heart signifies Christ’s love in three ways: God is love, God is loving and God loves with human feeling.

God is love. The Sacred Heart symbolizes the love that is God. From all eternity, God is love. That is the primary meaning of God as a Divine Community and not a single person. The essence of love is to give, and within the Trinity, each of the three Divine Persons from all eternity shares the divine nature that each one possesses. When we say God is love, we are defining God as that Community of three Divine Persons who, from all eternity, each share with the other the fullness of what each one not only has, but of what each one is.

God is loving. God is loving not only by bringing us into being, but by bringing us into being as creatures who are capable of love. God could of made us insects or animals or trees or lofty mountains, but these cannot think and love. When this loving God chose to create other beings, it was only because He is loving that He wanted to share what He as God had from all eternity (love) with beings who would not even exist without His love. From the moment of creation and into the endless reaches of eternity, God will continue loving us. If He were to cease loving us, we would cease to exist! God manifested His love by bringing us into existence and making us creatures who are capable of love.

But God also manifested His by becoming one of us, and, having become one of us, He has remained and will be for all eternity one of us. When the Word became Flesh, It became Flesh not only for a time, but for all eternity. God will remain Incarnate forever. This loving God, who out of love for us became man and died on the Cross to show His love for us, this God became man and remains man, but He remains man on earth.

It is no exaggeration to say that the Sacred Heart is the Holy Eucharist. The Eucharist is the same Infinite Love who is God and who out of love for us became man and is here on earth. When we receive Him, that same God is within us. Love wants us to be intimate. Love wants us to be near. Love wants us to be close to the one whom it loves. The Holy Eucharist is divine genius!

God loves with human feeling. The third meaning which the Church gives to the Sacred Heart as symbolizing God’s love is that God loves not only as God but also as the God-man with human feeling, human emotion, human sensibility and human sensitivity. We creatures of feeling, emotion and sensitivity need to hear this. God in the Holy Eucharist is man indeed, but with all the supreme sensitivity. Christ in the Blessed Sacrament is a sensitive Christ. He feels. St. Margaret Mary tells us that Christ in the Eucharist senses in a way we as hypersensitive human beings can understand.

Wives tell me, “I spend hours cooking the meal and all my husband does is sit down, eat and even ask for more. But he never thanks me!” Or among religious, “Father, you have no idea how much it hurts me to know that when we pass in the corridor, he does not even look at me.” How sensitive we are! How we need to know that God became a sensitive human being! When we come to Him in the Blessed Sacrament, He wants us to tell Him how we feel, and He will tell us how He feels. When we come to Church, we should not leave our heart in the car. When Christ came to earth, He did not leave His Heart in heaven.